Lead and Follow
In Part I, we discussed what I believe are the basic responsibilities of the leader. As the follower, you also have some equally important responsibilities.
Both the leader and follower are equals on the dance floor. If the follower is not fulfilling her responsibilities then neither dancer will enjoy the dance any more than if the leader is not fulfilling his.
The Follower is Responsible for:
- listening – Listening is simply paying attention to his lead. Watch his chest and shoulders. Be attentive of his hands/arms and where he is looking. These are all indications of his intentions.
- not anticipating – Anticipation is simply another word for Leading. If you think you know what he is going to do next, you will begin to back lead.
- maintaining a connection – Actually both are responsible for the connection. Maintain a good frame, keeping your arms slightly in front of you. Keeping your weight forward on the balls of your feet will also help you maintain connection.
- maintaining tone in your arms - A Barbie Doll is the perfect example of tone. Barbie’s arms are slightly bent in front of her body and when you move her arms, you move her body from the waist up.
Every lady loves to dance with a man who is a good lead. Every man loves to dance with the lady who knows how to follow. Put them together and amazing things happen.
I’m sure there are a few others that I haven’t mentioned here. What makes a great follower?
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